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Karin
Pearson-Huffer is the author of Legal Abuse Syndrome, which
identifies a form of post traumatic stress disorder caused by
corruption in our courts, along with protracted litigation.
This book is a must-read for victims of legal abuse as it contains
clear cut identification of the problem, and assists us to cope
successfully with our situations.
Legal Abuse Syndrome is a 234 page book which
discusses the effects of, and steps to recovery from Legal Abuse
Syndrome (LAS), what the author has defined as a Post Traumatic
Stress Disorder resulting from abusive and protracted
litigation.
Anyone
subjected to the abuses of the American civil justice system will
immediately identify with the cover and quotations appearing on the
back cover of the book.
Ms. Huffer
begins in the Preface by defining LAS, and in the Introduction
identifies seven LAS victims whose stories she has woven into a
highly readable self-help book for other victims of LAS.
Legal Abuse Syndrome also doubles as a text book for mental
health professionals providing therapy to LAS
victims.
The book
is divided into 10 chapters, beginning in Chapters 1 and 2, Huffer
identifies the symptoms of the LAS victim and the etiology of
LAS. These two introductory chapters are followed by 8
chapters in which the author breaks down the Eight Steps to Recovery
consisting of Debriefing, Grieving, Obsession, Blaming, Deshaming,
Reframing, Empowerment and Recovery.
Each
chapter begins with a relevant quote which sets the stage for the
material presented. The book concludes with Maya Angelou's
powerful poem, "I rise."
INTRODUCTION
Legal Abuse Syndrome is a book which helps
victims overcome the pain caused by their psychological reaction to
profound and prolonged injustice. Those who seek justice have
been victimized by either deception or violence. When a victim
pursues justice he becomes engaged in a "shotgun wedding" of sorts
which unites the psychological and legal issues into a psycholegal
condition. Recovery requires both psychological attention and
legal closure. The condition, which i have named "Legal Abuse
Syndrome (LAS)", is a chronic "psycholegal" Post Traumatic Stress
Disorder which complicates the victim's ability to adequately defend
himself or herself against further assaults or to effectively fight
for rights at a moment when victims most need their creative
powers. LAS is the obscure factor that is exploited by
unscrupulous attorneys, white-collar criminals, and abusers of
authority.
We will
meet victims who suffer from LAS. Each story vividly portrays
the struggle for freedom against systems that fail their
proprietors, the taxpayers. The stories are of real people put
to the test of character; bravery takes on a quiet dimension.
I resist the term common people because it alludes to
sameness. These are unique and talented individuals whose
common thread lies only in their traumas. Ordinary is a more
appropriate adjective in that they are unknown, private performers
and reflective of the majority of Americans.
James was
an ordinary man with a dream. He put hard work behind the
dream and brought it to near completion. A big bank and a
contractor conspired and together used the bankruptcy system to take
the product of twenty years of James' life.
Judy was a
trusting mother and real estate salesperson. She met a man and
married him. She found that the identity of the man she
married was falsified. He had been three separate people in
his life. Three complete sets of false identities
had seen this man through feigned lives across the
nation.
John was
ready for retirement. A trusted employee and an attorney
conspired to take his company. John is fighting for his
financial life at an age that was planned for comfortable
retirement. His wife worries that the stress and trauma will
kill him.
Tom
suffered financial collapse as a result of improper actions of a
judge who would not enforce a jury's decision. Tom took on his
own legal battle. He's fought for nearly a decade in
court. His appreciation of the Constitutional plan for
American justice has grown along with his determination to protect
it.
Chloe was
rejected, divorced, and assumed to be a woman who could not put up a
fight in court to protect her share of the estate. Chloe set a
new standard for perseverance and creativity in her court
battles. Her prominent husband, with his power-oriented ways,
is left in shock as Chloe begins to turn her case around. The
reader will be shocked as well.
Manny
followed family tradition and stood up for himself against the
odds. Manny allowed his emotions to dominate his
case.
Each of
these victims suffers from LAS. They would not have developed
the condition if the institutions that are paid to regulate and
protect the citizens had functioned ethically and competently.
Massive systems failure greeted each of them. Their experiences and
others will guide us from their points of victimization through the
eight steps toward recovery.
Psycholegal LAS victims have exceeded rage in the
human emotional experience. This book is the helping manual
for these walking wounded who suffer from the cumulative effects of
a criminal or deceptive assault followed by further trauma from
experiences with the justice system, professionals, and/or
bureaucracies. Legal Abuse Syndrome exposes a
completely preventable condition. LAS takes the victim "Beyond
Rage". This book brings the victim back from the implosive,
devastating cycle of LAS. Eight steps provide the road map and
survival course that guides the victim from the points of impact of
the assaults through the brutalities of the systems too often
encountered during the aftermath of crime.
Chapter
Summaries
Chapter 1
- "Invisible Hostages" reveals the hostage condition that results
from betrayals of trust and the quiet crimes. Symptoms of the
hostage-stage psychological reactions are put forth with a list of
the white-collar crimes, litigation/judicial atrocities and
bureaucratic failings that cumulatively assault victims. The
case of James graphic-ally portrays the path from the initial
affront through the aftermath of the crime. James went to law
enforcement agencies, sued through the courts at huge expense, and
found his situation worsened to the point of post traumatic stress
disorder (PTSD). Chapter 1 includes one cartoon and two
illustrations.
Chapter 2
- "The Epidemic" illustrates the chemical changes that take place in
the brain during prolonged victimization. It becomes clear
that a profound sense of helplessness in the face of jeopardy causes
post traumatic stress disorder. The longer the feeling of
helplessness lasts, the more pronounced are the symptoms.
Victims find themselves in the symptoms as they relate to their own
experiences. James shares that at the time he needed the
protection of his judicial system, it betrayed him. He was
left unable to obtain justice. Extensive research supports the
theory that "psycholegal" post traumatic stress disorder is a common
occurrence in litigants and victims of the invisible crimes.
The reader can look around and see the "cellophane-wrapped" victims
who have moved beyond rage to an implosive, cyclical
lifestyle. These victims usually remain invisible. The
chapter includes one illustration.
Chapter 3
- "Debriefing" begins the second part of the book, the eight steps
to recovery. Debriefing is an activity that the reader can
do. It centers around a graphic, processing sheet that
delineates losses, feelings and facts. This chapter begins a
caring journey. The sense of isolation is relieved in victims
as they see their experience(s) begin to take a manageable
form. The case of P.J., who broke through denial during
debriefing helps us understand how to effectively respond to
victims. This chapter also lists "absolutely what NOT to say
to a victim." The chapter includes one illustration and two
reader participation graphics.
Chapter 4
- "Grieving" clarifies that loss of trust is the greatest loss known
to a human being. The case of Judy demonstrates the profound
effect of bureaucratic and law enforcement behavior on a
victim. Judy had to face the FBI, the IRS, and court after a
betrayal by her husband. Grieving masks as depression (the
common cold of mental illness), exhaustion, varied illnesses and
conditions. Grieving over loss of property is usually
discounted in American culture. "Takings" have become a part
of business strategy and are often done through the use of the
system. Bankruptcy court, the Drug Enforcement Agency, the IRS
- effect takings of property without due process. Takings
threaten the lifeblood of the nation. The case of John depicts
the nebulous nature of grief. It is pushed aside if the loss
is not "respectably" large. John breaks down over a tiny
tangible issue that, in fact, reflects huge intangible losses.
In this chapter we see that the loss of belief systems, trust, and
ideals are critical to the loss picture. Each case will show
that our protective systems did not function as intended, and
inadvertently or by design, intensified the trauma. Legal
Abuse Syndrome, a Journey Beyond Rage... and
Back, articulates that the right to redress in order to prevent
losses and to exact recompense is key to a sense of safety and
security necessary for mental health.
Chapter 5
- "Obsession" leads us toward a sense of control over our lives
again. Readers become aware that obsession is a natural
response to victimization. Randomization is a difficult
concept to grasp in life. When good people are assaulted and
left unaffirmed by their culture's systems, life proceeds on a path
with no moral compass - no guide to safety. A list of
obsessive styles is characterized by descriptive names, i.e.,
"Lifeguard", obsesses around health; where as an "Inventorier"
counts and accounts for all belongings, endlessly. What to do
about easing obsession is listed with case examples. A sense
of humor interweaves as victims look at their obsessive selves with
acceptance.
Chapter 6
- "Blaming" faces victim-blaming head on. Society discourages
blaming; therefore, victims are praised for taking responsibility
for the awful things that happen to them. Further, victims
often seen little recourse once blame is established.
Attribution is a necessary step toward justice because it reinforces
the moral code. This chapter gives a victim a graphic
for assessing degrees of blame and then enriches the reader with
specific blaming actions dramatized by James and the other
cases. Barriers to blaming are explored, such as guilt and
societal pressure. There is a self-blame checklist followed by
the danger of self blame. Revenge and punishment are
contrasted with appropriate, quality blaming actions which drive
behavior toward the moral code. Those ignored, outrageous
assaults by attorneys and the systems, such as slander and character
assassination in the courtroom and denied right to redress, are
listed at the end of the chapter. Victims begin to feel that they
are not crazy or at fault. This chapter includes a reader
participation check list.
Chapter 7
- "Deshaming" - offers a totally unique approach to understanding
human motivation in terms of power. A continuum is presented
which ranks a person's motivating force as either conscience-based
or power-based. Human interactions can be visualized as on a
grid. The conscience-based person is often victimized even
though he may have spiritual power. Power-based people are
motivated by envy and a need for superior posture. Lying is a
key tool of the power motivated person. Lying wins over
truth. Here is where violation of the moral code is "business
as usual" for some and an outrage to others. Shame is known to
the conscience-based person, who often absorbs shame from the
violator as well. A tournament of the game, "Prisoner's
Dilemma", is used as an example of strategies that help
conscience-based people learn to identify and cope with power-based
individuals. Specific skills are taught regarding cooperation,
competition, and self-protection. Thus, to free them from
shame, the readers are able to relinquish undeserved shame and to
follow guiding principles for modification of their belief
systems. The case of Manny exemplifies the predicament and the
process for deshaming. The chapter includes two
illustrations.
Chapter 8
- "Reframing" is the pivotal procedure that embarks upon
recovery. All five steps leading to reframing are required to
effectively achieve this phase. The victim shifts from a
painful perception of self to a new, open, morally sound and
personally inspired view of himself. There is an LAS Reframe
Exercise which allows the painful issue to come forth. Then
the pain is put to the reframe steps. The victim might say, "I
was a fool". Reframed, the victim will say, "I was a
trustworthy person", "I believed that others were largely
trustworthy too". Then the victim searches for the wisdom
gained from the experience. The chapter includes one reader
participation checklist.
Chapter 9
- "Empowerment" more than anything, brings a fresh approach for
legal and bureaucratic problem solving to the ordinary person.
Steps are blueprints: 1) seek and destroy misinformation, 2)
form pragmatic expectations, 3) avoid the predictable, 4) persevere,
5) use mental toughness, 6) become a vigilante consumer, 7) call a
crime a crime. Misinformation is a strategic tool used by
abusers of the justice systems. It crushes the force of truth
distorting the course towards justice. Oppression thrives on
misinformation. Empowerment requires effective attacks on
misinformation through official channels. The predictable path
is owned by the power-centered. They travel ahead and prepare
to take the conscience-centered person out at every turn.
Victims need each other and creative approaches. This chapter
ties into Appendix B which contains a host of resources.
Eleven tools and techniques are presented. Rules and
regulations of an institution are usually broken by those who abuse
from within the organization. Finding those violations
empowers a victim tremendously. Mental toughness is the
ability to never lose focus regardless of attacks or
diversions. Vigilante consumers focus on the real bottom line
in America, the consumer. When crimes occur, they must be
treated as crimes and dealt with by consumers who keep the focus on
the real bottom line. The chapter contains one
graphic.
Chapter 10
- "Recovery" brings perspective. Victims become veterans who
have an important function in correcting societal wrongs.
Readers are brought up to date by parting words from the victims
whose cases were portrayed in the book. It becomes apparent
that recovery is not a destination but a journey wherein the eight
steps are incorporated into a renewed lifestyle. Forgiveness
and restoration are discussed as quite separate issues from
recovery. Veterans are no longer cellophane-wrapped hostages
but are back in the game of life, risking once more. Trust as
a staple, societal issue is explored in the context of LAS being a
totally preventable assault to the mental health of our
nation.
In the
Conclusion, Ms. Huffer thanks her patients who have trusted her and
taught her that there is an invisible fabric woven of American
character found in the ordinary person. It is an invitation
for these victims who refused to be soul-murdered to lead the nation
back into a future of hope, trust and a code of American conduct
that they represent so quietly. The Epilogue contains a
snapshot of an LAS victim that has been driven beyond
rage.
The book
includes a Bibliography which cites references and related works is
included as well as a Glossary of terms used in the
book.
Appendix A
defines clinical post traumatic stress disorder.
Appendix B
Resources for the Empowerment of the Ordinary Person. This
appendix provides the LAS victim with a list of organizations
dedicated to legal reform and victim rights.
Appendix C
Victims-Witness Protection Act of 1984.
Appendix D
contains worksheets to be used in conjunction with the
book.
The
following pages contain the Preface and Introduction as they appear
in the actual book.
PREFACE
* If you are deeply disillusioned and feeling
oppressed as an American citizen, resulting from experience with our
justice system, you may be suffering from Legal Abuse
Syndrome.
* If you've been a litigant in court and justice was
not to be obtained at any price, you may be suffering from Legal
Abuse Syndrome.
* If you fantasize an act of vigilante vengeance
because it seems like the only recourse, you may be suffering from
Legal Abuse Syndrome.
* If you've reported a crime and found that you were
punished instead of the criminal, you may be suffering from Legal
Abuse Syndrome.
* If creativity and dreams have been left in the past
because their development was ripped from you and torn to shreds by
your protective systems, you may be suffering from Legal Abuse
Syndrome.
* If you feel numb, disconnected, and vulnerable, you
may be suffering from Legal Abuse Syndrome.
* If you feel that the "system" will defeat you at
every turn and there is nothing you can do about it, you may be
suffering from Legal Abuse Syndrome.
* If you feel that you have been victimized twice,
once by a perpetrator and then by your protective system, you may be
suffering from Legal Abuse Syndrome.
* If you feel that you are a decent and honorable
taxpayer who's been subjected to "cruel and unusual punishment" by
lawyers, judges, and officers of the court, you may be suffering
from Legal Abuse Syndrome.
Some will deny that Legal Abuse Syndrome (LAS)
exists. They will remind us that we have an adversarial system
of justice. Abuses will be written off as adversaries battling
for their clients. Victims will be nothing more than
casualties of a "fight for justice". Others will worry that
victims of LAS will want compensation for their psychological
injuries. Skeptics will ask, "Aren't LAS victims just
malingerers wanting more from the system?"
I do not indict the legal profession, fine judges and
hard working public servants. I applaud those who serve their
clients well in any milieu. We do not bash any organization or
profession in this book. Lawyers, judges, FBI agents, police
officers and investigators have all crossed my private practice and
helped me to delineate the abuse of power that permeates every
profession. Many of these professionals are themselves
invisible victims also and need the support of the
public.
Abusers are studied in this book as a method of
exposing to LAS victims the predicament that oppresses them.
The systems are explored in the victims' experiences. The
psycholegal condition is revealed along with skills to help the
victim cope with abusers of his systems. The scope is a large
one for a marriage and family therapist or fellow victim to
tackle. It may feel unwieldy and threatening to the
reader. However, reading and rereading has produced results
and has motivated me to risk a big project and perhaps an unpopular
one in behalf of those invisible victims who can heal in spite of
systems without a cure.
A firm warning to those who would use the following
material to damage or discredit any citizen in any
manner:
LEGAL ABUSE SYNDROME IS A NATURAL AND NORMAL
RESPONSE TO AN ABNORMAL, UNNATURAL, CUMULATIVE TRAUMA, AS WITH ALL
POST TRAUMATIC STRESS DISORDERS. ANY ATTEMPT BY ANY PERSON
TO DISCREDIT AN INDIVIDUAL'S TESTIMONY, CHARACTER, OR ACTIONS DUE
TO THEIR SUFFERING FROM LAS IS TO CLEARLY DEMONSTRATE THE ABERRANT
NATURE OF OUR SYSTEM OF PROBLEM-SOLVING. ANY ALLY OF
CIVILIZATION MUST CLEARLY IDENTIFY SUCH BEHAVIOR AS ABUSIVE, PUT A
HALT TO DESTRUCTIVE ACTIONS, AND DEVOTE THEIR ENERGIES TO
RESTORATION OF VICTIMS OF THE
"SYSTEMS".
No one likes to think of himself as a victim.
Immediately, it conjures an image of a loser or someone making poor
life-choices. Yet, in spite of resistance to facing our
victimization, legal abuses have become common. When abuses
occur, victims are created. We either have to face that we are
victimized or accept an aberration to civilized living as being
"just the way it is".
Laws provide for courts, agencies, law enforcement
bureaucracies, and regulatory services. We depend on them to
resolve our disputes and to protect our cherished rights. When
they fail, our nation must deal with the victims and vigilantes left
in the wake and officially sanctioned
wrongdoing.
In this book, we will explore cases that are shocking
and fascinating. They illustrate abuses perpetrated by our
legally instituted protective systems and the pain and suffering
that results. Citizens are driven "Beyond Rage". However
startling, and moving our cases may be, we have only touched a
segment of their lives and experiences. Each case has, left
unrevealed, depth of trauma and complication that would be
prohibitive in space and time to write about in one
book.
This work results from my experiences of the past
twenty years as a marriage and family therapist in private
practice. Throughout my career, a certain discomfort gnawed at
me regarding clients who attended my various groups and
seminars. While the seminars dealt with the subjects of
codependence, substance abuse, parenting, divorce adjustment,
assertiveness, stress, or whatever the current topic dictated, there
always remained the walking wounded. Those were clients, whose
true source of pain was not recognized by family or friends.
Worse, it was never clearly defined by helping professionals.
With no diagnosis, their condition could not be targeted for
treatment. Invisible trauma nebulously danced around the
topics, never to be healed in these hungry
participants.
It wasn't until a white-collar crime was perpetrated
on my family that i saw these walking wounded with uncomfortably
opened eyes. After nearly a decade of struggling with the
justice system, and working with other such victims, I have
concluded that the enormous betrayals and inefficiencies that make
up bureaucratic post-crime experiences, are literally attacking the
emotional health of this nation. Victims have no satisfying
place to turn. Rage accumulates and its sequelae have reached
epidemic proportions.
A therapist must, of course, check such observations
against the danger of inaccurately projecting onto a client personal
feelings or attitudes that go beyond therapeutic use of self.
I have done that. Even more uncomfortably now, I see the
massive validation of my theory by participants in the "Beyond Rage"
seminars. Still theoretical, but deadly serious, is the thesis
of this book that victims in America are, first, assaulted by crime
and, secondly, by abuses of power and authority administered by the
systems their tax dollars support to provide due process of
law. In short, they get a "double whammy".
People of principle find their decency,
trustworthiness, responsibility, and use of their courts trounced by
systems that perpetrate judicial and bureaucratic atrocities.
Americans, who follow a code of conscience, encounter a profound
imbalance between the abuses of power perpetrated by those entrusted
with the systems and the prohibitive conscience of the ordinary
person to violation of values and laws. At the heart of this
book is the threatened psychic underpinning of the American citizen
which is tied into the Constitutionally protected rights that we
depend upon. To imperil the basic freedoms, which Americans
are taught are their birthright, is to jeopardize conditions of
trust and safety necessary for a healthy, productive
life.
Victims challenge the finest of counseling
techniques. The lack of closure combines with prolonged,
cruel, and unusual punishment exerted by the court system.
Ongoing strain of litigation then interfaces with psychological
issues. Diagnoses are tricky and dynamic. Healing
techniques and strategies are interrupted by the trauma of the
proceedings or behaviors of court personnel. Stress reduction
training is of marginal value for a litigant who will regularly be
administered another dose of outrage. The best of family
intervention is defeated if the family court renders a visitation
arrangement that destroys continuity in the raising of the children
or if the current custodial parent is harassed and stalked,
unprotected by the law enforcement system.
Outrage is tough enough. Beyond rage is
terribly painful territory. I caution the reader that to
earnestly use this self-help material for healing purposes will be
challenging. On the other hand, if you choose to stay beyond
rage, you exist in a type of living death. So, victims of the
systems are caught between a tough place and a really hard place. Go
slowly, get involved in groups, if possible, but don't let your
lifeblood be stripped from you without a fight. This book will
help to get back on your fighting feet. You won't change
massive systems or reform your country in all likelihood.
However, when all of the trauma has been processed, you will become
an empowered, effective individual again.
More and more, helping professionals are being
confronted by "psycholegal" issues. Patients are driven beyond
rage over an extended period of time during which victims travel an
isolated road. The impact of the invisible assaults usually
are ignored.
Vigilante violence results when the needs of the
majority are not being met by the systems (Tucker). What of
the gentle and decent person who values a law abiding mode of
life? Unless the unique needs of these victims are identified
and healing processes made accessible to them, the cost in pain,
suffering, disillusionment, and shutdown of creativity to the
individual and society is immeasurable.
Karin
Pearson Huffer
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